Don't Tell Me.

I feel sorry for the husbands whose wives publicly declare that their children are the most important things in their life. 

I love my kids, but I wouldn’t commandeer a woman’s entire life just to have kids. 
Children are the result of marriage, a benefit of marriage, and one of the joys of marriage. 
But kids are not the main reason for marriage. 

 I told my wife never to tell me if she thinks her children are the most important part of her life. 
 That would be so demeaning.